The Evolutionary Awakening of the modern Escort/Sex Worker
May 29th, 2023 by
Tiffany Lee
Once upon a time, there was a wise sex worker who had encountered many different male personalities throughout her career. from timid and nervous to confident, dominant and even aggressive, the sex worker had learned the art of navigating the complexities of each clients, unique desires and needs.
Through her experiences, after approx 5 years , she observed what she described as a steady decline in her clients confidence, relaxed demeanour and general honesty in her conversations and interactions with her clients. By having a non-judge, mental and unobjective awareness, she was able to use different conversational techniques to come to a point of understanding that to keep her clients engaged and keep them feeling comfortable and confident ,she needed to take a focused approach to maintain each individual clients masculine identity and strong persona. She knew the only way to do this was to embody those very same characteristics within herself.so she approached each client with confidence, asserting her own limits and boundaries while also remaining open and receptive to their desires.
Through her interactions, with Man, from all walks of life,the sex worker understood the importance of not only fulfilling physical needs, but also providing emotional support and understanding.she recognised the power dynamics at play, in each, and every encounter,and used her wisdom to ensure all parties felt respected and gratified.
in the end, the sex workers, wisdom and skill allowed her to improve, and even thrive in her profession,while also challenging the societal norms and expectations.
She understood that the tolerance and acceptance of sex work could contribute to a greater understanding and appreciation of the complexities of human desire and sexuality.
As she brought to light and started to reflect on all the aspects of Adult / Sex industry work and each individuals place and position within industry and most importantly within society, she speaks to all of us when she realises that we must ALL ask ourselves whether we are contributing to the feminisation of men by imposing limiting societal expectations and a type of shame onto those who don’t conform to traditional gender roles.By embracing diversity and challenging, gender norms,we can create a more tolerant and accepting society that honours the unique characteristics of what it is to feel desired, wanted and needed from another individual, regardless of our gender, sexuality, race, profession, or lifestyle choices. The time has definitely come for every person to step into the person you genuinely feel you are, not continue to define yourself by your location, but instead, turn your attention outwards and seek out “your tribe”. Those individuals that align with your values , opinions, likes and similarities.those are the people to unite with that will support you and be your strength moving forward . None of us will prosper and no one will survive , if we enter this new phase of life alone.
Together, we are strong, united we are alive
with humility we can show,that with each other will we will grow ..
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