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Name: Ts Sassy Sin

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Website: https://www.naughtyads.com.au/trans-escort/tssassysin

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About Me: Trans Woman Escort. Sex Work and Sexual Health Advocate. I take pleasure in being desired, fetishised and sexualised, as long as you pay me!

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Brothel Life: My Experience as a Trans Sex Worker

February 23rd, 2026 by Ts Sassy Sin

I worked in brothels during the early 2000s, and some of my most memorable experiences came from that time. Financially, it was rewarding, there were weeks when the wallet was very healthy by the end of it. But beyond the money, what truly stood out was the sense of community. For many of us, the sex industry was where we first met other trans women and built lasting friendships. It may sound cliché, but brothels became a meeting point for sisterhood. We shared similar journeys, navigating identity, safety, family rejection, transition costs, and the realities of surviving in a world that often misunderstood us. That shared experience created bonds that went far beyond the workplace. I had an incredible run at Pleasure Dome in the early 2000s. Trans women were in high demand, and when we clocked in, we worked, sometimes back-to-back bookings. Clients walked through those doors willing to pay for a fantasy, and those of us who understood that this was both performance and business thrived. Presentation, attitude, hygiene, and professionalism mattered. The girls who treated it like a business generally did well. However, like any competitive environment, there was a darker side. Where there is high demand and good money, there can also be jealousy. I witnessed what I call the “jealousy girls”, workers who weren’t getting as many bookings and, instead of improving their approach or effort, resorted to gossip. Rumours would circulate: claims about unsafe practices, poor hygiene, or someone’s character. These kinds of allegations can be deeply damaging in our industry, where reputation is everything. I can’t say for certain whether rumours were ever planted about me directly, but I did hear from other workers and even clients who approached me to “confirm” things they’d been told. That alone shows how toxic an environment can become when defamation replaces professionalism. When gossip and competition override mutual respect, the workplace stops feeling safe. The energy shifts. Instead of camaraderie, there’s suspicion. Instead of empowerment, there’s anxiety. For some girls, the mental toll was heavy enough that they chose to leave brothel work entirely. No amount of money is worth feeling unsafe in your workplace. Later, when I stepped into the role of a sex work advocate, I learned more about workplace rights and safety standards. Spreading false claims about a worker’s health or practices is not just petty, it can be legally actionable. Defamation harms someone’s livelihood and mental health. We deserve the same workplace protections as anyone else. Despite the toxicity that sometimes surfaced, I don’t regret my brothel years. They shaped me. They strengthened me. They connected me to my trans sisters in ways that still matter today. The experience taught me not only how to survive in a competitive industry, but how important it is to protect your reputation, your mental health, and your peace. Brothel life gave me community, financial independence, resilience, and a clear understanding that professionalism and solidarity must always outweigh jealousy.

Untrustworthy “Regular” Clientele

February 23rd, 2026 by Ts Sassy Sin

I’ve said this before, and I still stand by it: some of the most untrustworthy and unreliable clients in sex work are the so-called “regulars.” Now before anyone gets defensive, let me be clear, not all regulars are problematic. Some are respectful, punctual, and understand boundaries. Those clients? I appreciate you. Truly. But there’s a pattern I’ve experienced over time that needs to be talked about. The Entitlement Trap When a client sees you more than once, something shifts. Familiarity starts to blur professional lines. Suddenly: • They expect discounts. • They push for “extras.” • They ask for things that go against your clearly stated boundaries. • They assume access outside of booking hours. • They feel entitled to priority treatment. Some start acting like loyalty earns ownership. It doesn’t. Sex work is a business. Returning doesn’t buy control. It doesn’t buy emotional leverage. And it definitely doesn’t buy a discount unless one is explicitly offered. Respect Shouldn’t Expire with Familiarity One of the most frustrating patterns? The casual disrespect. Regulars who: • Show up late without notice. • Cancel last minute. • Don’t show up at all. • Assume you’ll “understand” because they’ve seen you before. No courtesy call. No accountability. Just expectation. There’s this outdated mentality that because someone is paying for a service, basic respect becomes optional. As if professionalism only flows one way. That mindset is tired. Paying for a service does not exempt anyone from punctuality, communication, or basic human decency. This is still a business transaction. My time is valuable. My boundaries are firm. My standards are non-negotiable. The Myth of “Special Treatment” For a long time, I treated regulars differently. I prioritised them. I was more flexible. I gave grace. And what did that teach some of them? That flexibility equals weakness. That familiarity equals permission. Not anymore! I no longer treat regulars as more important than new clients. Everyone gets the same: • Clear boundaries • Clear pricing • Professional conduct • Mutual respect I provide a service tailored to your fantasy, and nothing more. No emotional entitlement. No bending my values. No special privileges. Professionalism Is a Two-Way Street Sex work is real work. It requires emotional intelligence, safety awareness, time management, and business skills. It deserves to be treated seriously. If a client disrespects my time, ignores my boundaries, or repeatedly behaves irresponsibly, the solution is simple: I block and move on. No drama. No chasing. No resentment. No love lost. Because protecting my peace, my safety, and my professionalism will always matter more than keeping a “regular” who doesn’t know how to act like one. And the clients who do respect the boundaries? They’ll always have a place at the table. The rest can find someone else. #SexWorkIsWork

Self-Worth Over Money

February 8th, 2025 by Ts Sassy Sin

I've been involved in sex work for quite some time now. In the beginning, I accepted nearly every job, even those that made me uncomfortable or left me feeling disrespected. My focus was primarily on earning money, often at the expense of my own well-being. They say that experiences teach us valuable lessons, and I've certainly learned that firsthand. I've come to realise that it's essential to set boundaries and prioritise my self-worth. Even during times when I haven't had work for several days and my bills are overdue, I've chosen not to compromise my standards. This shift in mindset has led to a newfound sense of self-esteem and empowerment. I’ve also embraced my role as a sex worker and sexual health advocate. This journey has deepened my understanding of self-respect and personal boundaries. I've learned that it's entirely possible to be a sex worker and still demand respect. It’s a powerful realisation that I am in control of my own body and mind. I used to believe that men could act however they pleased as long as they were paying, but I now understand that this is not true. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity, regardless of their profession. Improving self-esteem as a sex worker can be a rewarding journey, and here are some practical steps that have helped me along the way: 1. Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries that make you feel safe and respected. Communicate these boundaries to clients and stick to them. 2. Educate Yourself: Learn about sexual health, rights, and advocacy. Knowledge can empower you and enhance your confidence. 3. Practice Self-Care: Make time for activities that nourish you physically, mentally, and emotionally. This could include exercise, meditation, hobbies, or spending time with supportive friends. 4. Seek Support: Connect with communities or groups that understand your experiences. Talking with others who share similar paths can provide encouragement and validation. 5. Reflect on Achievements: Take time to acknowledge your accomplishments, both big and small. Celebrate personal growth and milestones you achieve in your work and life. 6. Challenge Negative Thoughts: Monitor your inner dialogue and replace self-criticism with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your worth and the value you bring. 7. Engage in Professional Development: Consider attending workshops or training that can enhance your skills and knowledge, making you feel more accomplished in your work. 8. Focus on Positivity: Surround yourself with positive influences, whether through uplifting media, supportive friends, or inspiring role models. 9. Set Personal Goals: Identify specific, achievable goals related to your work or personal life. Working toward these goals can provide a sense of purpose and self-worth. 10. Practice Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness exercises, such as meditation or deep breathing, to help you stay centred and reduce anxiety. By taking these steps, you can cultivate a stronger sense of self-worth and confidence as a sex worker. Your value is inherent and not defined solely by your profession.