THE NEW AGE GENTLEMAN

What industry are male escorts apart of?

“The sex industry…….”

Partly true, especially if said escort is just paid for their glorious meet stick. I personally believe escorts or as I prefer to regard myself, gentlemen, are in the people industry.

It has dawned on me over the years that some of these so-called Gentlemen are just in this for a money grab & sex while hiding behind the persona of interest for others. They see the dollar bills, they see pretty women, and let the reptilian part of their brain take over. For just $49.99 you can now do a gentleman course…… I have heard cases from women who were told they would have to pay for another booking if they wanted reassurance that the gentleman enjoyed their company……. While I have an appreciation for upselling, marketing, and business; the later case is just disrespectful to your clients. A simple 30 second phone call to reassure a client after a booking is not that hard – especially if you have an assistant managing your calls. And while sure I do believe you can teach people how to be providers, a $49.99 course with a horrible online presence, no face attached to the work is not the course to educate & teach people how to be escorts – I would actually argue that it has a deleterious effect on the industry & how people perceive this line of work. Even online dating coaches and pick up artists charge $800 for their courses. This line of work requires a broad depth of knowledge to bring real value to clients. You are working with Psychology, physiology, spirituality, sexuality and emotions; to scratch the surface of just one of these topics requires one to be studious for a minimum of six months to a year.

Yes, I will openly admit that the appeal of getting paid good money to have sex, go on dates, and potentially fly around the world was very much at the front of my mind as I did my industry due diligence. Any man who says they never considered these things is most definitely full of shit. If a successful, high-earning male escort was only making about $100,000 a year and/ or required you to do four years of study would this line of work be as appealing to the male population? No! It’s just like becoming a musician, or a modern day DJ. People aspire to become world famous or even local DJ’s because of the potential to travel the world, perform at festivals where you are on a stage & everyone is looking up at you, and the financial upside. Travel, fame, and money; what more could the ego want…… Whether a male escort, DJ, creative artist, entrepreneur or other high paying career such as a lawyer or vet, you will find out just how much you want to succeed and work within that field, when no one is around and you have responsibilities to do. Do you find every excuse to abrogate the responsibilities or are you practicing your craft & finding ways to reach your goals; whatever your individual goals may be.

So yes I am a male who thought sex, money, travel, fuck yeah! I also looked at the industry like the business that it is. The business of people. If you don’t like people; if you are not open minded; if you can not respect someone who may come from a polar opposite world as you; If you cannot hold a sympathetic or empathetic space for people of trauma; if you don’t know how to make people feel comfortable & at ease; if you don’t know how to excite & entertain people; If you have banal, low-quality communication skills; if you think having the biggest penis is the way to real sexual satisfaction & fulfillment; then this line of work is probably not for you.

Now all of this is old news. Just about every male provider I have ever seen address the paragraphs above has said the exact same thing. So what is the point of this blog you ask…. To shake things up a bit.

Do you have a pool boy by any chance? Do you have a lawn mower man? Do you have a house cleaner – your own personal bitch boy? Do you need your car cleaned? Do you need your gutters cleared? Do you need some simple gardening & landscaping done?

“OH JESUS FUCK LEXX”

Now just like the $49.99 course mentioned above, the services I just suggested could open up the window for cowboys. So while I do not know if any other providers offer these sorts of services for clients, nor do I encourage anyone to advertise these types of added services, I am willing to allow clients to make these apart of their booking should they desire it or need the help. With years of experience within construction; cleaning; various forms of yard work, and experience managing a full household of eight, I am confident & comfortable with my ability to offer such services onto your booking at no additional cost. You just need to supply the tools & resources needed to do the arranged tasks – I do have access to some basic tools. Should a task be out of my capabilities I will openly tell you so, and even help you arrange someone to do the job professionally.

“Lexx, this is the sex industry. Not the home maintenance industry. What the fuck are you on about?!?!”

You’re right it is the sex industry.

Do you consider it sexual if a client is peaking behind her curtain touching herself as I mow her lawn shirtless?

Do you consider it a form of companionship if I do some yard work with a client while enjoying a few cuppa’s?

If a client doesn’t have a man in her life to clear her gutters, wash her car, clean her house, and she is unable to do so due to a busy schedule, where is she going to source one from?

“Men who work within those businesses & industries!”

Okay and most of those men would not provide a sexual service as well now would they... So tell me what is better by the female client.

A)   Pay the lawn mower business, pay the house cleaner, pay to have their car washed, and then pay upwards of $250 an hour for companionship & sex.

B)   Pay a gentleman who has a healthy understanding of how to handle such tasks, and provide the companionship & sex she desires.

While I will be keeping my attention on romantic services, companionship, sexual services, and erotic modalities; there are a myriad of things you can hire me for. This is your time, your money, your energy; and so with a simple, good conversation you can customise a bespoke experience tailored to your needs & desires that is authentic & not robotic.

Should you just need a few hours of great sex, awesome that’s what I am hear for.

Should you find me incredibly attractive & want to take me out for dinner, let’s make it a date.

So many women still need to experience THE WORLDS BEST EROTIC MASSAGE EXPERIENCE.

I am not deviating from the core intentions behind why women & couples hire men like me; and I still understand that I am in the sex industry. Though like I said earlier, I am in the industry of people, and so providing more value to those who desire renting me is a focal point of my business.

Excluding the environment, what is the difference between a woman hiring a gentleman to travel with her overseas & a woman hiring a gentleman to help get some much-needed housework done?

-       Both can lead to a sense of attachment.

-       Both create long lasting memories.

-       Both have risks.

-       Both can fill you with mirth.

-       Both can still involve companionship, sex, and going out for dinner.

And guess what, when Mr. Just Right shows up at your door. That handsome 6 foot 6, tanned, model, with a perfect smile, who can fix cars, renovate a house, put five children on his back, and make your pussy melt the way you want it too without the hourly price tag; you can just look at me say, “Alright, you can fuck off now”. Of course that is an exaggeration as I would appreciate a little thank you message letting me know you no longer need me or my services, especially if you have been hiring me over an extended duration of months and/ or years – just like a honourable company does when they are letting people go; though you have no obligations to say good bye.

The price point is still the same.

$150 p/hr for non-sexual, non-intimate companionship.

$350 p/hr for any booking that is going to entail sexual services.

2-hour minimum.

These are not services every provider should offer, nor will every provider appreciate clients requesting these services. The industry does not need more cowboys deliberately ruining peoples lives; nor do all providers want to do this for their clients. This a Lexx Soule special, if you are reading this then you have an opportunity, if you have a friend who would benefit from something like this, please share this with them, you are my word of mouth. Like I said previously, I still intend to be known & recognised for creativity, romance & erotic modalities; on an intellectual level I just see no difference between a woman paying a gentleman to travel overseas & a woman paying a gentleman to do the physical work she doesn’t want to do or doesn’t have time to do.

Just like when planning for an overseas travel experience, we will need to have a paid consultation to discuss your needs, desires, and expectations. Two hours of companionship should be adequate, unless of course you also need a consultation with my penis 😉

Maybe you love this idea, maybe you abhor this idea. But in a world where people want to take more for less, you have someone offering more for less.

What would you like to do?

Book now: lexxsoule@gmail.com

Thank you for reading,

Mr. L.Soule.