SEX TERMS AND ACRONYMS - By Discreet Gentlemen's Club

Sex Term Glossary

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Many people looking into booking an escort for the first time find themselves completely perplexed by the amount of adult-industry specific language being used.

This is made all the more confusing as a lot of the jargon crosses over with other terms and can mean the exact same thing. Here is a quick reference guide on some of the key terms used in the adult industry to describe different sex acts.

Please note: some of the services/terms listed are high risk due to the nature of the service (i.e. unprotected or dangerous), for the health and safety of our patrons and ladies, we do not offer any unprotected or dangerous services.

We have included them in our Dictionary however for the benefit of our readers and entrust them to make educated decisions.

A

Affectionate cuddling

Affectionate kissing

Light kissing on face/lips, may not include kissing with tongue (see Passionate Kissing).

Aftercare

Term generally relating to the BDSM practice of debriefing and affirmations post sexual activities.

Anal/anal sex

Sexual penetration of the anus.

Analingus

Oral sex on the anus

(see also: rimming)

Anal play

Can mean a variety of things relating to "butt stuff" - examples could include rimming and anal fingering.

Asphyxiophilia

Sexual fetish for suffocation/choking

ATM

Ass To Mouth - Anal penetration followed immediately by oral

Auto-erotic asphyxiation

The highly-risky act of deriving pleasure from self-asphyxiation (any form of strangulation is considered high risk).

B

Ball Busting

Bareback

Risky sex without condom.

BBBJ

Bare-Back Blow Job - Fellatio without condom.

BBC

Big Black Cock

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman.

BDSM

Bondage & Discipline / Dominance & Submission / Sadism & Masochism

B&D

Bondage and Discipline

Bi-Double

Booking two ladies for a threesome which includes play between the two ladies as opposed to a straight-double in which both ladies are focused on the male specifically.

Bi-sexual

Someone who has sexual inclinations towards both the same gender and the opposite gender.

BJ

Blow Job (Fellatio/Oral Sex)

BLS

Ball Licking and Sucking

Breathplay

A sub-section of BDSM that relates to restricting breathing for sexual gratification - highly risky without proper knowledge or training.

Brown Shower

Defecation on a sexual partner.

BS

Body Slide - Sensual massage technique involving provider sliding naked body over client.

Bondage

Consensually tying up or restraining a sexual partner with either cuffs, ropes or other restraints.

Bukkake

Genre of porn / act involving a group of men ejaculating on an individual

Butt Plug

Form of anal sex toy.

C

Caning

Cat o' Nine Tails

Multi-tailed whip

CBJ

Covered Blow Job (Fellatio with condom)

CBT

Cock and Ball Torture

CD

See Cross Dressing

CIM

Cum In Mouth (Ejaculation in mouth)

CIMWS

Cum In Mouth With Swallow

COB

Cum On Breasts

Cockring

Sex toy/enhancement tool that restricts and traps bloodflow within the penis to help prolong and strengthen erections

COF

Cum On Face

Cosplay/Costumes

Costume-Play. Not necessarily sexual in nature but can be incorporated into sexual play (see also: Role Play)

Cowgirl

Sex-position where a woman is on top and facing her partner while being penetrated.

Creampie

Ejaculating internally (specifically either vaginally or anally)

Crossdressing

Wearing clothing traditionally associated with the opposite gender.

Cuckolding

Watching/experiencing your partner have sexual intercourse with someone else.

Cunnilingus

The technical term for providing oral sex to a female.

D

Dam/Dental dam

DATY

Dining At The Y (Cunnilingus - Oral sex on her)

DDP

Double Digit Penetration (Two finger penetration)

Deep Throating

When a penis or toy is pushed deep within a partner's throat during fellatio.

Devil's Threesome

Term for a threesome involving two men and one female.

DFK

Deep French Kissing (See also: Passionate Kissing)

Dinner Companion/Dinner Date

Social escort that involves non-sexual services during a meal (conversation and companionship) which may be booked in addition to full service.

Dirty Talk

Talking to your sexual partner in an explicit way during or before intercourse to increase sexual arousal (can include describing additional sex acts - also see: Role Play)

Docking

Using the foreskin of an uncircumcised penis to encapsulate by rolling it forward.

Doggy-style

Sex position where the female is bent over and the male penetrates vaginally from behind.

Dominatrix

Female dominant for sexual fetish play

Douche

Flushing out vagina or anus using water or a solution as a means of cleaning out

DP

Double Penetration

DT

Deep Throating

E

Edging

Electrode play

More advanced form of fetish play involving the use of electrode toys that deliver stimulation through electricity.

Erogenous zone

Location on the body that is sensitive to sexual stimulation and creates sexual arousal.

Erotic massage

Relaxation massage which has a focus on arousal. See: Sensual Massage

Escort

In the context of services listed, "Escort" relates specifically to outcalls (where services are provided at the client's own hotel room/home).

Exhibitionism

Fetish for sexual experiences in public or with a crowd/watchers.

F

Face Fucking

Face Sitting

The practice where a male or female places their genitals ("sits") over their sexual partner's mouth for the purpose of oral pleasure.

Facial

Ejaculating onto a partner's face.

Fellatio

The proper term for oral sex perfomed on a penis (see: Blow Job)

Felching

Ejaculate/Semen being sucked out of an orifice.

Female Ejaculation

Ejecting of fluids by a female through sexual stimulation (See: Squirting)

Fetish

Fetish can relate to anything of a sexual nature or that causes arousal and is has a certain degree of specificity.

Fingering

Digital penetration and stimulation (using fingers)

Fire and Ice

Alternating between hot and cold oral stimulation. (e.g. using a warm beverage and ice cubes to vary the temperature of your mouth during fellatio)

Fisting

Sexual penetration of an orifice using an entire hand.

FK

French Kissing

Foot Fetish

Sexual arousal and interest in feet. May have an inclination and sexual fetish towards touching, licking, sucking feet.

Foot Job

Similar to a hand job except with the use of feet to provide stimulation. Requires both feet to provide adequate grip and stimulation.

Foreplay

The acts immediately preceeding sexual intercourse

Full Service

Simply put, the term means sex is involved in the service. As opposed to massage service, etc.

G

Gagging

Gang Bang

An orgy that traditionally involves multiple men have sexual intercourse and perform various sex acts with one female participant.

GFE

Girl Friend Experience

Girlfriend Experience

A sexual service that is more affectionate and intimate in nature - as opposed to a more explicitly sexual experience PSE/Porn Star Experience.

Glory Hole

Hole in a wall or door (generally within a bathroom) for the purpose of anonymous oral sex (fellatio)

Greek/Greek Sex

Anal Sex

Group Sex

Sexual activities involving multiple parties (See: Orgies)

Golden Shower

Urinating on a partner for sexual gratification (See Also: Water Sports)

H

Hand Job

Happy Ending

Massage that ends with a handjob and possible climax.

Hand Relief

Another word for a hand job.

Head/Head Job

Oral sex

HJ

Hand Job

Humiliation

A sub-section of BDSM relating to the sexual arousal/gratification of a submissive through being degraded or embarrassed by a dominant partner.

I-L

Italian

Jizz

Ejaculate, generally meaning semen. Or the process of ejaculating.

Kink

Broad term relating to unconventional sexual preferences and acts. Anything non-traditional or "Vanilla".

Lesbian Double

Similar to Bi-Double, specifically relates to ladies that will perform sex acts on each other.

M

Masturbation

Masochism

Deriving pleasure from pain, humiliation or submission from a dominant partner.

Menage a Trois

French term meaning a threesome.

MILF

Mother I'd Love (to) Fuck

Missionary/missionary position

The most common sex position where the male is on top of and facing the female participant.

MFF

Male-Female-Female - Another variation of a threesome.

MMF

Male-Male-Female - A variation of a threesome where both the male and female are interacting with one of the males.

Motorboating

Placing one's face between a woman's breasts and moving your head side to side between them.

MFM

Male-Female-Male: A variation of a threesome where both males are interacting with the female participant (See also: Devil's Threesome)

MSOG

Multiple Shots On Goal (Multiple ejaculations/orgasms permitted within booking)

Mutual masturbation

Both sexual partners pleasuring themselves within the company of the other partner

N-O

NSA

Orgasm

Height of sexual arousal and pleasure. Climax.

Orgy

Group sex with multiple participants interacting together.

P

Paddling

Passionate Kissing

Deep, French kissing. Using tongues during kissing.

Pearl Necklace

Ejaculating semen onto a partners neck, creating the appearance of a "pearl necklace".

Penis Pump

Sexual enhancement device designed to suction air around the penis with the direct intention to draw blood to the member, enhancing erection.

Pegging

Anal sex/penetration using a strap-on.

Perineum

The space between a person's genitals and anus.

Pink Sock

Inverted colon that is visible outside of the anus which occurs occasionally when pulling out too quickly during anal.

Piss Play

A.K.A. Watersports - Sexual activities involving urine.

Polyamory

Having multiple romantic partners.

Porn Star Experience

Girl-Friend Experience's raunchier cousin. Service is more akin to what you would see in your favourite pornographic movies, hence the name. Can include services like gagging, choking, face fucking, etc.

Prophylactic

A device or item that prevents the transmission of disease, includes: condoms, dental dams, etc.

PSE

Porn Star Experience

Pull Out Method

The most unreliable form of contraception which does not provide any protection form STIs

Q-R

Queef

Quickie

A short sexual encounter that's generally rushed and excludes much (if any) foreplay.

Reverse Cowgirl

Similar to cowgirl position, with the difference of the woman facing away from her partner.

Rimming

Using your tongue to stimulate another person's anal ring. Analingus.

S

Sadism

Experiencing pleasure or sexual arousal by administering pain.

Sadomasochism

A broad term relating to experiencing pleasure from giving and receiving physical or psychological pain.

Safeword

A word or phrase when uttered ends play in fetishistic activity.

Shower for 2

Sensual experience in the shower, including body touching and play.

Sixty-Nine (69)

A sex position that allows both partners to provide mutual oral pleasure simultaneously.

Snowballing

Transferring ejaculate from one mouth to another.

Social Escort

A non-sexual escort experience, generally involves dinner or some function or event. May include sensual or intimate moments and conversation but diverges from a normal full service.

Sounding

Inserting items into a urethra for sexual pleasure.

Spanish

(A.K.A. "Titty Fucking"). Placing a man's penis between a woman's breasts and thrusting it up and down creating friction for sexual pleasure.

Spanking

Hitting with an open palm (generally on the buttocks) for the purpose of sexual gratification or enhanced sexual pleasure.

Spit Roast

A position during a threesome involving penetrative acts from both ends (oral and either vaginal or anal) giving the appearance of a "spit roast".

Sploshing

A fetish within food play that generally involves soft foods and liquids being poured onto a sexual partner for sexual gratification.

Squirting

Female ejaculation (i.e. "squirting" fluid during climax)

Starfish

A non-enthusiatic/lazy participant during sex. One that lies on the bed with the expectation the sexual partner will do all the work.

Strap on sex

See: Pegging.

Strip Tease

Slow undressing and gyrating for the purpose of sexual arousal and entertainment of an audience or partner.

T

Tag Team

Tea Bagging

Similar to face-sitting however tea bagging specifically relates to placing one's testicles within the mouth of a partner.

Teasing

Lighter, less dominant version of orgasm denial, more within the realms of traditional foreplay.

Threesome

Put simply, three people having sex with each other simultaneously.

Titty Fuck

Sliding a penis between the breasts of the partner to gain sexual gratification. (See: Spanish)

Toys

Within the adult industry context, this relates to sex toys. Devices with the intention of creating arousal, climax or enhancement of sexual experiences and sensations.

Tromboning

Providing a rimjob while simultanously giving a handjob to a sexual partner.

U-Z

Urethral Play

Vacuum Beds

Sex toy/device used in BDSM for a variety of fetishes including but not limited to: latex fetish, bondage play, breath play, etc. Essentially it's sheets of latex that are vacuum sealed with you in between.

Voyeur/Voyeurism

A fetish relating to watching/spying on other people's sexual play.

Watersports

Incorporating urination into sexual play. See: Golden Showers, Piss Play, Etc.

Waxplay

Sexual play using hot candle wax.