A fascinating thing I’ve learned about men as an escort!
ShareI came into this industry about five years ago now with not a clue what to expect. I was pretty nervous because I always planned to offer outcalls only and my safety was front of mind.
I was pleasantly surprised - over and over again - by the lovely clients I have had the pleasure of meeting over the years. I think I’ve had a total of two absolute dickheads. In five years, I reckon that’s pretty good!
I think the biggest thing I’ve learned in this job is that most men have a very instinctual sex drive. I believe it’s something that they are born with.I’ve had many married men become clients over the years - most of whom have no interest in cheating on their wives, who they usually love very much. They book an escort because of that love - they are fully committed to their marriage and booking an escort is purely to satisfy an urge so inherent it’s almost uncontrollable. An urge that they don’t feel will be looked after at home. Booking an escort is a safe way for them to calm the urge and keep their marriages in tact.
Ladies - I know often you just don’t feel like having sex because life really is busy these days, you’re exhausted at the end of each day and your pillow is so inviting. Your man would love you to suggest some sexy time though - even just once or twice a week! Be honest with him - if you can’t be bothered with sex, offer him a blowjob! Nine times out of ten he’ll get that excited at your suggestion he’ll be done in less than 5 minutes! Why not suggest one in the morning when you’re refreshed after your beauty sleep?!
And ladies, if you catch your man having spent time with an escort - try and give him an opportunity to explain himself to you - and consider where he’s coming from. I understand this won’t be a popular opinion with many ladies out there but honestly, if I caught my man having ”cheated” with an escort, knowing what I do now, I would give him another chance. And I would commit to lifting my game a little in the bedroom - making myself a little more available, more regularly- and I would know that his sex drive is something he probably wished he had more control of but doesn’t. This is a great example of why it’s so important to be secure within yourself - to know your worth and love yourself first. Then if you do find your man has been with an escort then you will know that deep down your man really loves you so much and there was nothing emotional in it for him .
Relationships are very much a two way street !
kitty Kate xx
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