The Standard- Entitlement. And It Isn’t Sexy
ShareMost men don’t come in wondering how to approach an escort.
They come in already decided.
Decided that access is a given.
Decided that money settles the conversation before it even starts. Everything after that is just logistics.
“What are your rates.”
“When are you free.”
“What do you offer.”
No introduction. No acknowledgement. No awareness or care that there’s a person on the other side of the screen.
Just straight to consumption.
And no — they’re not confused about it.
They don’t sit there wondering why it feels transactional.
They want it to be.
Because if it’s transactional, they don’t have to see you as anything more than what they’re there to take from.
No responsibility.
No consideration.
No need to recognise you as a person with any kind of weight or presence or needs outside of that moment.
That’s the part that gets dressed up.
With a “hey beautiful.”
With a compliment that’s been copy-pasted a hundred times.
Like politeness somehow cancels out the fact that they skipped straight past you and into what they want from you.
But you can feel it immediately.
That tone.
That flat, one-dimensional approach where you’re not being spoken to — you’re being used as a means to an end before you’ve even replied.
And the thing is — it’s not rare. It’s standard.
It’s the baseline most men operate from.
Then, every now and then, one doesn’t.
Not because he’s special.
Not because he’s “different.”
Because he understands something painfully simple that most men either ignore or avoid:
You’re a person first.
Not a service.
Not a time slot.
Not something he gets to access just because he decided he wants to.
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