Married men who see escorts, and who are we to judge?
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Some people are quick to judge married men who see escorts, but life and relationships are rarely as black and white as they seem from the outside.
Over time, even the strongest relationships can lose their intimacy. That doesn’t always mean the love is gone. In fact, many of the men I meet speak so highly of their wives, they love them deeply, respect them, and often describe the rest of their relationship as genuinely beautiful. They share a home, a life, a friendship, and years of memories together. But somewhere along the way, the physical closeness and affection faded.
For some, seeing an escort isn’t about replacing their partner. It’s about filling a space that has been empty for a long time, a need for touch, connection, feeling desired, and being able to switch off from the pressure they carry every day.
I feel no shame in seeing these men as clients because I don’t see myself as someone stepping into a “perfect” situation and ruining it. More often than not, I’m offering kindness, warmth, and a moment of genuine human connection to someone who feels lonely in one part of an otherwise happy life.
Human needs are complex, and relationships are deeply personal. I’ve learned not to judge people based on a single chapter of their story.
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