Where men feel most comfortable meeting me and why
ShareThere’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately and I’m not entirely certain about why, but I would love to know where do men actually prefer to meet a woman like me. After spending time with many different clients, I’ve noticed how much the setting seems to shape the whole energy between us. Some love hotels.. the crisp clean sheets, the anonymity, the sense that nothing there belongs to either of us. It’s neutral ground, no strings, no traces. There’s something safe about that for them, and honestly, sometimes for me too.
Then there are the ones who get this look in their eyes when they walk into my apartment (I book apartments from Airbnb etc as often as I can as I find this to be the preferred setting for a lot of my clients which is understandable for a number of reasons plus there’s still the safety of cctv cameras and other people in the building so they feel safe,especially if it’s our first time meeting. The apartment is usually a lot more personalised than when I book hotels,it’s not my home though) They take in the candles, the scent, the warmth like they’ve just stepped into a secret part of my world. It feels more personal, more intimate. I can see/feel it typically in the way they touch me, how they linger a little longer after. Maybe it makes the experience feel less transactional, more like something real, even if just for a brief period.
And then there’s the brothel crowd, the men who prefer the structure and safety of that setting, where everything’s already arranged and there’s no guessing or pretending. I get that too. Some people like boundaries that are clear and clean.
But what fascinates me is how much these choices reveal about what they’re truly seeking. Is it escape? Connection? Control? Or just a moment where the world outside doesn’t matter? I don’t think it’s ever just about sex.. it’s about how they want to feel while they’re having it. And sometimes, I think I learn more about a man from where he chooses to meet me than from what he says once we’re there.
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