I used to order pizza and a lovely lady every Friday night - now what?
I have had the pleasure of having a very long term client/paramour that I have kept in touch with via Skype, WhatsApp and Facetime since March of this tumultuous, uncertain year. Over our virtual conversations, I asked what it meant to him to NOT be able to book his favourite girl (along with his favourite pizza) every Friday night.... well... his response surprised me .... After a huge breath in, he admitted that, "One way or another you need to have have sex - pizza can wait ... Therefore if there are options available for sex you will find them. Everywhere online - and a great deal more so online these days - you will see options for sex. If escort agencies are not available, you will find indivdual workers out there. And I am only human." I appreciated and thanked him for his honesty. However, it did make me wonder what he would do if Stage 4 restrictions came into place in Melbourne (this conversation was during a time when Stage 3 restrictions allowed private, individual workers to operate, as well as escort agencies). I discussed my concens with my client, and he seemed both surprised and confused by the fact certain adult services were available while others were not. I laughed and said we all were in the industry, but thanks to the dedicated pages on the website sexworklawreformvictoria.org.au, I had some clarity around the subject. I also directed him to the pages dedicated to answering client questions, an INVALUABLE resource for both confused clients and workers. We're still catching up virtually, however now that Stage 4 is in place we've just had to get a little naughtier, a little more naked and a little more creative ... all great fun, and very freeing for the mind and body! I am finding that virtual sex is becoming nearly like a form of aristic expression for me now, I have developed my own style, flow and flair and truly look forward to engaging with clients at a cyber level ;-)