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During the last 7 years of working as an Escort, something has become blatantly obvious to me and that is the astounding number of men who are addicted to porn, the number of married men seeking escort services and how common premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are. All of these things are considered taboo topics and no one is talking about it. Well, I should say, no-one was talking about it.
In February of 2023, I was 1 of 13 women who attended a 5 full day training called Conscious Sexuality Experience Immersion and Practitioner Training. This was the first of its kind and facilitated by sex therapist and former escort EJ Love and the amazing Anna Morrigan, Dominatrix and Owner of Discreet Gentleman's Club and Club 687 (now called The Wheel 687 if my memory serves me correctly). Both women have witnessed the broken divine masculine throughout the years and have noticed the rapid increase of numbers of men living with a porn addiction and erectile dysfunction as a result.
Statistics on the number of men not seeking relationships due to their addiction to porn is staggering. Men are ashamed of their addictions and there aren't many places providing them with hands on assistance, so that they can overcome these issues.
Another staggering statistic is the number of men, who have no idea about consent and many are finding themselves being charged with rape, or with carrying out sexual behaviour that is by the new laws definition considered acts of rape.
If you do anything to a woman's or another man's body without explicitly asking them and them saying yes, that's RAPE!!.
If a person agrees to have sex with you, but then falls asleep, unless they have given you consent to touch their body while they're sleeping (I personally love being woken up to a moist mouth and tongue lashing at my pierced clit, and kissing my smooth pussy all over, while 2 fingers are inserted inside my tight pussy, working on all of my erogenous zones between my legs, thighs and buttocks mmmmm), if you carry out any sexual activity while they're sleeping - it's RAPE!
If they are under the influence of drugs and alcohol in the eyes of the law, they're unable to give consent, so if you carry out anything sexual it's RAPE!!
Asking for consent can be done in such a way, that it adds to the excitement of what's about to happen. It can be used as a form of foreplay and really set the mood and definitely allows for a woman to be physically ready for intercourse
DID U KNOW IT TAKES A WOMANS BODY AT LEAST 30 MINUTES TO FULLY PREPARE FOR INTERCOURSE!!
So, if you men think that a bit of spit on the end of your dick is all you're required to do, you've been incorrectly educated about sexual intercourse with a woman, and this is more than likely why your wife/ partner/ girlfriend/ fuck buddy no longer wants to get down and dirty with you.
Sexual encounters with a person should never be carried out like a 200m sprint at the Olympics. Wam, bam thank you mam encounters are selfish and do absolutely nothing sexually for a woman.
Women like to be kissed, touched, caressed, worshipped by their men, told how sexy they are and how much their man (or woman) sexually desires them and how turned on their partners are. They need to be acknowledged and appreciated for their role as child bearer, or home maker and the sacrifices they make in their caring roles.
It turns out, many of you men, also like the same attention, and to have your masculinity worshipped and acknowledged and appreciated for being the providers that you are, and the sacrifices you make for doing so.
Why are we not taught about the 5 Love Languages? Why are we not taught in schools what it looks like to have a healthy relationship with our partners and educated about the things we should never do and say to someone we love, and educated about the consequences it will have on our intimate relationships if we do? If we lived in a world where we were educated about these things, there would be less relationships breaking down and less infidelity, and more happy contented couples having amazing sex and making time to be intimate with each other, less men staying up late wanking to porn to meet their physical needs and less women performing on cams to feel sexy and desired by men.
This is where Conscious Sexuality Experiences come in to play. These sessions can assist men and women to reconnect to their feelings and reconnect to their bodies. By using an eclectic tool bag of skills, a CSE Practitioner can facilitate an intimate encounter that doesn't involve intercourse. Tools used by the practitioner include using breathwork, meditation, massage, eye gazing and other tantric exercises to engage all of the senses. The practitioner creates a safe place by establishing consent and identifying no-go areas, by exploring different types of touch on different parts of the body in a non rushed and sensual manner, which creates an intimate experience for those involved. This atmosphere entices passion, reconnection and a mind blowing experience connecting the divine masculine and divine feminine in a nurturing, loving and respectful way.
The purpose of the session is being seen, being worshipped and bringing together the divine masuline or divine feminine sexual energy and bringing it up and connecting it to their hearts centre. Practitioners do this by performing lingham massages on men and yoni massages on women, which involves edging the client to the brink of orgasm and stopping to massage and circulate that built up energy around the body. This is how men can correct their erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation associated with their addiction to porn. Engaging in this practice on a regular basis will help to rewire the brain and its association with needing to ejaculate quickly. Instead the brain will associate intimacy and touch with an increased body sensation of being connected to their mind, body and heart centre, and getting flooded with the body's feel good hormones and in time this will increase the length of time a man can go without ejaculation.
So.............. whose keen to book in for a CSE session?
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